BurnKaet - Ona išče njo Texas

I have a job that takes care of myself and my kiddo.

Worked hard on self after a very bad relationship for 5+ yrs Understanding what I want and what I need for me and my kiddo.

Realized I need someone on the same page as me in depth of relationship, daily lifestyle choices along with alternative lifestyle choices.

That anyone with me understands I will stall out sometimes when I feel I am going wrong direction, to what makes my life enjoyable by my own merits which is part of anyone's growth.

I am about personal growth and seeking outside bouncing board when feeling stuck and impatient with my personal progress. I expect the same from My partners.

I am for running my life, not others or mothering others lives so need to be put together when on own merits. Again I have a kiddo still at home, he is all the direct responsibility I need on a daily basis. (Meaning I have found men who wanted the 1950s women or not even involved in their kids lives daily...not for this kiddo)

My saying: you must offer more than the comfort of my own bed. I am introvert and can find sex partners ...it's more about partnership and long term love relationship that is comfortable and trusting with each other to not have walls up.

Not interested in complicated family relationships. I Marie Kondo mine a long time ago. Family is into constantly gaslight, put down, or abuse you others. Mine sadly is that and so where my ex's and their families. My family of choice checks in on me when they don't hear from me (I get busy as being full time career and mom) and treat me great. They have been through most of past issues. Thus, I am not looking for others family just to have family.

I am looking for someone to add to my already good life not add more struggles as other relationships have.

Sex is never an issue and past people I am still great friends with know what I offer and know I want more than just occasional hook up. So don't be that guy.

I am emotionally pretty put together with flaws.

I am pretty much struggle some medical issues that caused weight issues after having my almost adult child. Exasperated having my now kiddo, I am his only parent. It's not over 250lb issue but it is an issue for me but existing medical issues have made it painful for me to do much about it. It's a mental thing I have not dealt with yet fully.

I'm a nerd... I love science and research. Both are my degree field which I most likely finish when student loans are settled out.

My debt is: student loans

Not having active credit for 18 yrs besides student loans killed my credit which I am rebuilding knowing how it works now.

I work in finance.

Someone who understands kiddo comes first.

Looking someone who understands my physical limitations and why I don't tool around as much; my vehicle is sad because of it.

Someone who can be motivating but not pestering or demanding.

Not a party or religion per say. Must be into equality, equity, body autonomy, people to identify as they wish and love who they love, and into philanthropy.

Into to community and 10 principles.

True understanding of consent.

Wanting emotional connection and lifestyle similarities over physical attraction.

Must be true to themselves. Not hiding from their past and have faced their life traumas to where you can openly talk about them.

Have their life's together and doing what they love.

Can connect with special emotional needs child.
doesn't use word "woke" because it's been glamorized by Instagram...